
Executive Summary: Virginia is a one-party consent state, meaning you can legally record a conversation if you’re part of it. But under Virginia Code § 8.01-420.2, that recording may not be admissible in a civil case like divorce or custody unless all parties knew about it, or it contains a confession of criminal activity. This also applies to FaceTime and other video calls. If you’re involved in a family law matter, always check with a lawyer before trying to use a recorded conversation in court.
When emotions are running high during a divorce or custody dispute, it’s not uncommon for someone to pull out their phone and hit “record.” Many people think that because Virginia is a “one-party state,” they’re in the clear to use any recording they made in court, especially if it captures something they believe proves their case.
But here’s the catch: just because it’s legal to record a phone conversation doesn’t mean it’s legal to use that recording in court.
This is where Virginia Code § 8.01-420.2 comes into play. And if you’re in the middle of a family law matter—divorce, custody, visitation, or otherwise—it’s worth understanding what this statute says before you try to use a recording as evidence.
What the Statute Says
Virginia Code § 8.01-420.2 is titled “Limitation on use of recorded conversations as evidence.” In short, it limits when and how a recorded phone conversation (including FaceTime) can be admitted in a civil case, even if the recording was lawful.
Yes, Virginia is a one-party consent state. That means it’s legal to record a conversation as long as one person in the conversation knows it’s being recorded. So, if you’re on the call and you hit record, you’re not breaking the law. But admissibility is a separate issue. Under the statute:
- A recording is only admissible in a civil case if all parties to the conversation knew it was being recorded,
OR
- A portion of the recording may be admissible if it contains statements from the unaware party that, if true, would amount to a criminal offense.
FaceTime Is Considered a “Telephone Conversation” Under the Law
One recent case—Hassan v. Tackacs—helped clear up confusion about whether video calls like FaceTime fall under this statute.
The court found that yes, FaceTime calls are considered “telephone conversations” for purposes of Virginia Code § 8.01-420.2. Why? Because even though the call includes video, it still transmits speech over distance, which matches the dictionary definition of a telephone.
So if you record a FaceTime call with your co-parent or ex and try to use it in a family court hearing, it’s subject to the same rules as a phone call.
Why This Matters in Family Law Cases
It’s common for someone in a divorce or custody matter to say, “I have them on tape admitting it.” And in many cases, they did record something real. But under Virginia law, unless the other person knew they were being recorded or said something that would amount to a criminal offense, the recording probably can’t be used.
This trips people up all the time. They assume because they recorded it legally, it’s fair game. But if you play an unauthorized recording in court, it could be objected to and excluded entirely.
And in some cases, attempting to introduce it without legal grounds could hurt your credibility.
What You Can Do
If you believe a recording is important, speak to a family law attorney before trying to use it in court. There may be ways to structure your case around other admissible evidence like texts, voicemails, emails, or witness testimony that are more likely to hold up.
Better yet, don’t rely on recordings alone to carry your case. Even if they are legal and admissible, they’re rarely the full picture.
Talk to a Family Law Firm That Knows the Rules of Evidence in Virginia
At Rinehart Bryant, we work with people in Stafford, Fredericksburg, Spotsylvania, and the surrounding counties to help them understand what can and can’t be used in court. If you’re dealing with a tough divorce, custody case, or visitation dispute, we’ll help you focus on building a case that stands up under Virginia law.
Rinehart Bryant – Your Virginia Family Law Firm.
FAQs
- Can I record my ex without telling them and use it in court?
Only if all parties knew they were being recorded, or if the recording contains statements that would amount to a criminal offense.
- What if I already recorded the call legally? Isn’t that enough?
Legal to record doesn’t always mean legal to use in court. Virginia has specific rules about admissibility under § 8.01-420.2.
- Can I use voicemails or texts instead?
Yes, voicemails and texts are generally admissible, as they don’t fall under the limitations of this statute.
- What happens if I try to use an unauthorized recording anyway?
The other party can object, and the judge may exclude the recording. It could also harm your case strategy or credibility.
- Is it ever worth making a recording in a custody case?
It depends on the situation. Talk to a family law attorney before recording or trying to use any recordings in court.


